“I wish to say a sincere ‘thank you’ for the way in which you conducted my brother’s funeral ……. You helped to ease the pain on a very sad occasion for us all by the extremely sensitive way in which you delivered the service” (MB : April 2019)
A funeral or memorial ceremony is a significant and sensitive event. It’s an opportunity to bring people together to say “farewell” to a loved one, and to express and share loss and sadness.
But it is also an occasion for acknowledging and celebrating a person’s life, personality, and achievements, and all that the person has meant and continues to mean.
I will work with you to develop a beautiful, dignified, and respectful funeral or memorial ceremony to celebrate the life of the person who has died.
I am experienced in developing religious, non-religious or Humanist ceremonies – whichever best reflects people’s beliefs and world-view.
I conduct funeral and memorial ceremonies across Greater London and the surrounding local authority areas (Hertfordshire, Buckinghamshire, Berkshire, Slough, Windsor and Maidenhead, Surrey).
BS: February 2020
I have many years’ experience of preparing and conducting funeral and memorial ceremonies, and providing both religious and non-religious pastoral support.
In addition, I bring to my pastoral and celebrant work many years professional experience of working with people who have mental health issues, people on the autism spectrum, and people with intellectual impairment (learning disability), and work with their families and carers. I am a “Champion” of the national “Time to Change” campaign, challenging mental health stigma and discrimination.
My personal interests include: music, opera, and ballet; reading novels, biographies, and diaries; walking; international travel; political and social affairs.
If you decide to use my services I shall:
I cannot emphasise enough that my role is to help you put together a ceremony, which reflects the uniqueness of your loved one – but this may be a completely unfamiliar task for you, and I can provide support and suggestions as necessary.
As a general guide, the ceremony is likely to include the following elements, some of which may be in the form of readings or poetry of your choice:
Being invited to act as a Funeral or Memorial Celebrant is a great privilege, and I would have a total focus on gaining a detailed and clear understanding of your loved one, and developing and presenting a ceremony which truly reflects the diversity and uniqueness of their life.
Some people like to plan ahead and prepare their own funeral or memorial ceremonies. I would be happy to work with you if you would like to take this approach.
I am experienced in working with, and in providing a service for, members of the LGBT+ communities.
I have particular experience working with people who wish to have a non-religious funeral or memorial ceremony, but nevertheless wish to include a religious element.
The service I provide, preparing and conducting funeral or memorial ceremonies, includes:
Recent Feedback from people who have used my services:
“Once again, many thanks for leading the service for our brother, Xxxx today. You did a marvellous job, and all our family and friends thought so too!”
(BS : February 2020)
“(We) would like to say a big ‘Thank you’ for the wonderful service you provided us on the loss of our dad. You made it very respectful and sincere and everyone commented on it. Thank you again J…. x”
(JF : September 2019)
“Thank you for all the time you gave to us. Mum said your conversations with her, helping her to focus on the good things about dad’s life, and the happy memories, helped to uplift her, and to deal with the loss a bit better”.
(LF : September 2019)
“I just wanted to say thank you so very much once again for conducting Xxxx’s funeral, especially given some of the German names and words you had to get your tongue around.
The children and I were very pleased with the part you played, especially given the short notice involved. Your knowledge, advice and calm demeanour, and ability to be flexible – accepting our amendments to your text – and adapting to the last minute change of speaker(s) without any fuss, were enormously appreciated. It made the whole thing easier for us to deal with.
I really liked your quote from Muhammed Ali. I had many comments from others present about the good ‘send off’ that Xxxx had been given and how good they had found the approach.
(HP : May 2019)
“I wish to say a sincere ‘thank you’ for the way in which you conducted my brother’s funeral ……. You helped to ease the pain on a very sad occasion for us all by the extremely sensitive way in which you delivered the service”
(MB : April 2019)
“Christopher had to handle a very awkward and difficult family situation relating to the ceremony, which he managed with impressive calm and discretion. Christopher went far above and beyond to help us have a moving and respectful ceremony which truly celebrated my father’s life. Heartfelt thanks to him”
(CP : March 2019)